Designing for a retreat

As much as I love my boys, I am secretly hankering for a place all of my own. I realize that the option is more plausible than I though… when we move, I shall have a little home office. While, of course, its practical purpose would be to have the space for me to effectively get some work done, privately and peacefully, it will also serve as the one room that I would not have to share.

Growing up, I had a different way of addressing all matters girly. I liked being soft and feminine, with skirts and slacks, let’s say, but I would balk at the frilly items, like ruffles. The same went for interiors. I never ever wanted a pink or lavender or pastel room, but I did find a warm rose pink attractive enough for window dressing.

Later on, I started leaning towards the more modern and edgy aesthetics. In fact, looking at the photo pegs I’ve accumulated for design inspiration, it’s hard not to miss the trend.

You can tell that I like things very urban, with very clean lines, stark palette, and uncluttered. It’s an aesthetic that translates well for both genders, almost asexual, if you think about it. Its a good canvass for putting an identity on display, something as a couple or as a family you build together.

Now, strangely enough, a few stray images have been making their way to my little file folder. Floral prints. Paisley. Even some pastel. But before anyone thinks I’ve gone on to the other end, into the realm of Shabby Chic, know that it’s more of finding my own little happy medium.

I seem to be reverting back to a taste that is more eclectic. I have always found a strange sense of harmony in balancing mismatched items. This personal style still sometimes comes out in my own fashion sense, but I have not had the chance to explore it in my own home.

So for starters, in creating a space all my own, I’ll let my instinct lead the way, into color, texture, freshness. Maybe a mix of vintage, Euro chic, sophisticated suburban, and summer-inspired style.

I am looking forward to seeing where this self-exploration will lead, and how eventually it will come together to be unapologetically, uniquely mine.